Er so it looks the whole "gaming" thing refuses to leave me, got into a tournament for ark (survival of the fittest) and it ended in a 6 way tie, the devs decided we all "came first" so all 6 of us win the prize.
you can watch the vod from their pov here
https://www.twitch.tv/survivetheark/v/70543333
(fucked up audio because yeah!) I did a video of it too
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tjY9aGgMAnc
Anyway I thought I would share that I am still actively trying to resist being an adult and that (at the age of 34).